Is there a way to preload individual scenes separately instead of preloading the entire project?

Because I have three different FLVs (movies for Broadband HI, Broadband Low, and Dial-up modem). And I want user to choose one of the three and WAIT just for the movie he or she chose, rather than waiting for preload to load all three movies.

And by the way, I'm trying to avoid doing the load movie action. Because it becomes too much work - I have about 20 different sections like this (20 x 3 movies = 60 swf),

So is there a way to do it?

Thanks for any help