This is the deal:
Use the flashcom server mainly for multimedia and live data syncroniszation. Use flash remoting to store data and make fast queries/resultsets. Now this sounds like the bomb, but thing is that I havent even got started with remoting, and I know theres a lot of others that havent and a lot of people who masters flash remoting.
Maybe psychlonex, one of those who masters remoting& controls the universe, maybe he could push a flash remoting specific help forum someplace arround here?