Good Girl Or Bad Girl

[silverx2]

carly, has a guy(and by guy i totaly mean girlin this situation) ever said something to you so sweet so sincere that you just broke down?

to some people they are corny lines but said correctly a girl will buckle at the knees.

now adays all girls care about are guys that run around get tatoos spend there 6dollar an hour burger flipping paycheck on a croch rocket and say to girls hey baby wanna ride my motor bike? the days of the romantic are over. nice guys finish last.

[robbmcaulay]

carly, has a guy(and by guy i totaly mean girlin this situation) ever said something to you so sweet so sincere that you just broke down?

They'd be wasting their time

[carly1979]

you'd have to say something pretty spectacular to get that reaction.

maybe you're just going for the wrong girls? you tried 'older women'? younger grils are maybe just out for a cheap/quick thrill ....they don't want anything serious/ long term, and you being romantic gives them the impression you wantsomething serious......

but what do i know?

[gerbick]

^ you know more than the average guy with your above statements.

[silverx2]

i try for girls within 2 years of me, but working at the gap im surronded by jailbait so its hard.

and my other job they are all late thirties, which is not my thing.

[gerbick]

get a 23-27 year old in your life.

[carly1979]

ok, if that's not your thing, fair enough. you probably don't need to go that old though- i was thinking late 20s/ early 30s. by that age a lot of women have had their fun and are thinking more to the future, maybe thinking it;s time to settle down a bit, find something a bit more serious, a bit more long term.

there are always exceptions, i am just speaking generally.....

[silverx2]

its harded then it sounds, most of teh 23-27 crowd i know either a.) does some sort of drug(which im against) or b.)has kids, c.)im related too d.)fugly.

you need to understand i live in teh sticks i grew up in a village.

[carly1979]

online dating?
dating agencies?

[gerbick]

oh. well your selection is that limited... I'd sugget moving, but I'm in a similar situation. the local collective gene pool here is quite lacking in variety... it's either ugly or ugly.

lose, lose situation.

online dating... dunno. I actually tried it, met a decent girl... until I looked into her medicine cabinet. can't deal with a chick that needs more than water or vitamins to cope with the day. multiple drugs to keep it all "stable" really scares me.

reminds me of this one time I woke up and found an ex-girlfriend just glaring above me and stating that she "could have" done something. locked doors since.

[carly1979]

ok, i'll come out (!!) and admit it- i met my girl online

[gesteves]

oh. well your selection is that limited... I'd sugget moving, but I'm in a similar situation. the local collective gene pool here is quite lacking in variety... it's either ugly or ugly.

lose, lose situation.

And you gave up beer?

[silverx2]

carly somehow i saw that coming.

online dating really doesnt work out well, im a wicked smooth talker online(hahaha) but when i meet people for the first time im like a deer in the head lights, i normally just watch and observe a group and eventually slide in and become one with the group before they relize what happened.

but yeah picking up chicks on the spot is not my strong point. im better at the snowball effect

[silverx2]

ok, i'll come out (!!) and admit it- i met my girl online

and the last girl i hit on online everyone at flashkit made fun of me and it turned out she was gay

*glares at carly*

[argonauta]

the thing is just to tell them exactly what they wanna hear. No matter if it's true or a lie, as long as it's what they want to listen to, they'll fall for it.

[gerbick]

Poor, poor silver.

[robbmcaulay]

Silver, you're coming across as a realy loser here...

Get out of the house!

[carly1979]

im like a deer in the head lights

you gotta get over that. the being friends first hing obviously isn't working

[hanratty21]

Upon re-reading the title of this thread...I am actually thinking the better solution here instead of Good Girl OR Bad Girl would be Good Girl ON Bad Girl.

[gerbick]

Genius!