how to make a player...STOP

[bluej2]

I have a sound player on a main page, but when I click a link on that page which opens a new browser, and then go back to the main page, the stop button doesn't work anymore...BUT when I hit play, it starts playing again, on top of the other one....

How can I

1. Stop the sound when the new browser opens (code???)

2. And/or keep the buttons working even after the new browser is opened.
The sound player is a streaming FLV...

Driving me crazy...

Thanks in advance.

[omni-0]

can you post either the swf or the fla

[bluej2]

You can see it here:

http://www.bluejaygraphics.com/

the small grey buttons...on/off...
and then you click on the link:

Sister-Site...opens the new browser...

Thanks

[bluej2]

Any ideas???