Please, please someone help me.......I am totally losing it.

I imported my flv into flash, I added a skin, I made the content path meetings.flv, I publish it. It works. I put the html, the swf and the flv, along with the skin.swf onto my site and it will not play. It JUST WON'T PLAY. I don't understand why it won't play. I have been trying to get this to work for 12 straight hours now. I have been on forums, I can not find an answer. I find posts but no answers. I followed the imstructiosn exactly from Adobes website and it just won't work.

PLEASE, can anyone help me? PLEASE.

I get this error when I try and play it on my server:

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