I need a way for my flash videos to not load when a web page is loading, rather, the video load once it is clicked by a user.

Any ideas?

Here is all of the necessary files I am working with. As you can see I have everything split up on different layers (actions, posterframe (still image) and movie).
You can also view the video here: http://builtinvacuum.com/cvtv/access/centra.html (to see what I mean when it loads right away)

I'm not sure how I can stop the load from happening until the user clicks.

Any help would be tremendous!

If you need more information, please let me know.