Why do you want to have the skype status appi inside a flash template/site? Why just not put it in the HTML site?

This is the site for making a skype status button html based http://www.skype.com/intl/en-us/tell...-skype-button/

If you have a flash template embbeded on a site, you can just have this skype status button below the flash object, so , no need to put it inside flash.