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    Senior Member gshock's Avatar
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    Why she do this?

    [2 days ago] so i had a late class in college and i managed to pick up this girl. I had a feeling she was into me by the way we were holding conversation and she was being really nice to me. so i decided to escalate and take her to dinner. She had some other plans but i guess she broke them and went out with me. Dinner went well... she didnt eat her food (which is a good sign) kept a lot of eye contact and smiled with me. no awkward silences and whenever i stopped talking she would roll the convo back over. She also offered to pay but i stopped her. when we left she said she wanted to do it again next week and she'll talk to me on msn. but its been 2 days and she hasnt added me.... what is wronnng? i have her email but i dont want to add her neither because i want to make sure SHE'S interested and its not just me. why do u guys think she waits?
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    2 days? dude, get over it. she might have a life and get on MSN only every now-and-then.

    patience. and good luck.

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    Stalk her. It's the only way.

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    listen to gerbs...and then watch the movie swingers to solidify this. There's some rules that apply to caling a chick back when she expresses interest. Remember dude, she may not be as big a 'nerd/geek/dork' as you think you are. Why did you go MSN? Why not the phone?

    Great...now i've assured GhostGirl & Nats are going to come in and pull my nards across hot coals

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    yeah i was really kicking myself for not getting her #... i would do that but i didnt know my cellphone number either cuz i just moved. i should get hers next time.... how many days do u guys usually wait after a first meeting?
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    Quote Originally Posted by yasunobu13
    Stalk her. It's the only way.
    the ONLY way
    Quote Originally Posted by gshock
    how many days do u guys usually wait after a first meeting?
    I don't. Ply her with liquor, hit it the first night, and move on.
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    You took her out to dinner but didn't get her phone number? If you're into her, go after her. If she's not into you, she's not. If she is, then she'll be happy you got in touch with her first.

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    maybe she uses AIM?
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    Maybe it's because he talks like a caveman? (thread title nit-pick)

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    maybe she likes girls?
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    mom?
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    Quote Originally Posted by WannaBe_80z
    moms?

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    Send her email, THANK her and say that it was a very nice dinner and you are looking forward to the next dinner. Be nice and polite and don't push her. She will, however, be remembered in a pleasant way to go out to the next dinner.

    I should charge money for this kind of advice
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    Quote Originally Posted by gshock
    she didnt eat her food (which is a good sign)

    thats not a good sign, thats an eating disorder.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverx2
    thats not a good sign, thats an eating disorder.
    He, he.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverx2
    thats not a good sign, thats an eating disorder.


    Wow dude, nothing against your technique but really no phone number??

    "Cindy I had such a great time, I would love to do this again.... soooo can I instant message you sometime? Oh hey! What is your MySpace address? I'll put you in my top friends."
    Seriously though, I only log on to my IM about once a month and I practicly live online. Don't be discourged, but do get their phone number next time.

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    She found someone else.
    It must be obvious day at camp stupid

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    Quote Originally Posted by yasunobu13
    Stalk her. It's the only way.

    from the sounds of it..... he's got the 'profile' LOL

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    That you asked for her msn name blew it for you, always get the number (and then don't use it). Move on, this girl has already lost interest.

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