Importing swf movie that the main movie controls

Hello,
I have a series of swf movies that I need to load into, a room timeline.
I would like this movie to have a controller, but It can't be contained inside the movie I need to load.

How would I load this movie in to say a movie clip or possible another loaded movie so that it is controlled with a controller that pauses and scrubs and all that.

I'm using mx 2004, and the movies are all the same size.

Btw I will continue to search, but I just don't know what to look for exactly.

Thanks in advance,
Andrew Kramer