displaying controls for streaming .flv

I have an object tag in my site that streams an .flv video. For some reason, however, I can not get the controls to display at the bottom of the video. I have tried several things, and it will not work. My source code is below. Thanks for the help.

<OBJECT classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000"
codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"
WIDTH="448" HEIGHT="252" id="myMovieName"><PARAM NAME="src" VALUE="videos/p2finalLg.swf"><PARAM NAME="quality" VALUE="high"/><PARAM NAME="bgcolor" VALUE="#FFFFFF"><PARAM NAME="controller" VALUE="true"/><EMBED src="videos/p2finalLg.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" WIDTH="448" HEIGHT="252"
NAME="myMovieName" ALIGN="" TYPE="application/x-shockwave-flash"
PLUGINSPAGE="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></EMBED></OBJECT>

I have the same problem..... they say it has to do with the control skin's swf being in the correct directory... which isn't solving it for me. Did you figure it out?