Accessing movie clip from flash swf

I have the situation where in flash i created a simple animated movie clip with few stop() commands on timeline. Movie clip consists of simple animatio played on roll over and on roll out which is controlled using actionscript. I loaded movie clip into flash using [embed] tag but actionscript code is stripped, there is no stop() action so movie clip loops continously. I guess that's normal behaviour for embedded flash swf files but i would like to know is there a way to still achieve that? Can i load swf some other way with its actionscript and then control movie clip from flex?