2 Q's please - autoplay vid ?? email skin??

Hi gurus...
This is the vid link, and I want to make it autoplay... what code do I put in and where do I put it in please?

<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/JEXjlJOJGJY&hl=en"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/JEXjlJOJGJY&hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>

actual vid link is here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEXjlJOJGJY

Also, can anyone tell me how to make a 'skin' play around a vid that I can ask someone to put their email into, for collecting emails from people who watch the vid... I had one like this that I never actually used, bought it online, but it was pc based and I'm on Mac now :shhh:

cheers
Barra

add this code

Code:

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autoPlay=false

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to the html after the

Code:

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allowfullscreen=true

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bit

as for coding the skin - can't help you there, but I'm fairly sure that a player like that based in flash would be cross-platform.

Dan