Remote Shared Object

Hello, I want to know how to use Remote Shared Objects to make a swf send a message to another swf, without it mattering what computer the other swf is on

If i can figure this out, i can make a chatroom no problem.

If you want to help but you don't know what Remote Shared Objects are, look at this tutorial i found.
http://imm.sheridanc.on.ca/imm2005/p...ial/index.html
I can't use that tutorial because its different to what i want.

If somebody could use this tutorial i've mentioned to tell me how to make a chatroom, that would be great!!!

Thanks for the future
Julian

please help me out, i've needed to know this for years now and the longer i have to wait the longer i have to occupy myself doing nothing at all.
yes my real name is Julian.