Links in my flash site pop up blocked?

I have a website located at: tonywilford.com made entirely of flash. However when I click on any outside link like on my contact page , it detects it as a pop up and doesn't open it.

I know I can disable the pop up blocker but how can I make it not do this for the everyday ordinary non technical visitor?

What I was trying to do (which may caused this) is when a link was clicked it would open in another tab instead of opening in the same window. If possible, I'd still like to achieve this.

Well hell 2 days and not 1 response.. does anybody know of a Flash forum with ACTIVE members? lol