SWF containing FLV won't play on remote

Here's where I fail.... please help.

Flash CS4: New document, insert FLV w/ skin.

I save the SWF, FLV & SKIN all to the same folder.

Next,

DW CS4: New HTML document, insert MEDIA> SWF (the one I just made above)

I save the HTML to the same folder with all the others.

I publish all those files to the root folder on the remote site for people to see.

I also publish the file that was auto created by DW 'swfobject_modified.js' in the folder that it created it in. (The folder is called 'scripts')

So to recap, I have one folder called scripts and then 4 files mentioned.

The result is that there is a white space where the video should be, and the 'skin' shows up... but no video.

Please help.

I am even willing to share my computer remotely so you can SHOW me how to do it right.

PLEASE HELP!