Can this embed code be mofidied so the file does NOT autostart?

I tried playing with the "play" parameter, but it still autostarts. I'm thinking maybe it's because the video is being pulled from another website?

<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=10,0,0,0" width="435" height="344" id="CEGEmbed">
<param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" />
<param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" />
<param name="movie" play="false" value="http://www.eonline.com/static/videoplayer/platform_players/swf/CEGDynamicPlayer.swf" />
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="PLAY" value="false" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="#000000" />
<param name="flashvars" value="width=435&height=344&ID=Embed&releasePID=9D IxttcFZrxg9XZyNgN165rFUcup8z5h&playerId=Embed&skin Url=http://www.eonline.com/static/videoplayer/platform_players/swf/skinCEGPlayer.swf&locId=US" /><param name="LOOP" value="false" />
<embed src="http://www.eonline.com/static/videoplayer/platform_players/swf/CEGDynamicPlayer.swf" width="435" height="344" loop="false" flashvars="width=435&height=344&ID=Embed&releasePI D=9DIxttcFZrxg9XZyNgN165rFUcup8z5h&playerId=Embed& skinUrl=http://www.eonline.com/static/videoplayer/platform_players/swf/skinCEGPlayer.swf&locId=US&autostart=false" allowScriptAccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" quality="high" play="false" bgcolor="#000000" name="CEGEmbed" id="CEGEmbed" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"/>
</object>

Check if the file has play command in itself....if it has a play command inside then no parameters updated while embedding would reflect!