Had two in my life. Never again!!Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
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Had two in my life. Never again!!Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
I am not sure anybody who is really enjoying their sex would be looking at their watch to know (if I was with someone who kept checking their watch, or looked at the clock after the deed had been done, I wouldn't go back there, they should be too relaxed to care)
And I wouldn't be interested in anyeone who put their cup-o-soup in the microwave and set the timer for 2 minutes before they started.
david
I dunno what was wrong with that.. My last girflriend was traditional chinese, very innocent, and very christian.Quote:
Originally Posted by gerbick
Now she is no longer innocent, or very christina. My fault for infringing on her beliefs, because sex before marriage doesn't fall into that category. May have been improper wording, but still the point I wanted to make.
Why would I want something that has been used before?
There is something a bit disturbing to me about your choice of terms....'used before' ??Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
If you love someone, what has gone before, or what might come after, should be pretty irrelevant. The past is gone, the future not arrived yet.
But to answer your question....practice makes perfect.
david
*shrugs*
I dunno. I suppose what you are saying makes sense logically. It is rational. Unfortunately I just don't feel the same way. I don't like the thought of the person I am with having been intimate with other people. How then, can they truly say that this is different than it was with the other people?
Practice can be done after as well, it doesn't have to be done with other people...
You are right though. The problem is that I understand that perspective and I know it to be the more rational one. For whatever reason, though, I just can't help but be upset when my gf talks about the other guys she has dated. She says she really liked them and whatnot. My perspective on that is then why did they break up? You know?
I think it is just having to know that what we share is different. That is what is hard, especially when they have done everything before.
Does that make more sense?
I was referring to putting out that personal information out there. It's a bit different from saying you're doing your woman.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
But to call it corruption?
Why would your current partner be talking about previous boyfriends?? There's an issue to address right there.
And why does anyone break up? 'Cos it just wasn't the right thing, that's all.
"How then, can they truly say that this is different than it was with the other people"
Well, because we're ALL different. Every single one of us. And put two different people together and that's even more different.
So I'm wondering DaVulf, what happens if you go through a few girlfriends before finding "the one", but what happens if that "the one" doesn't want to be with you because you've been with "so many" girls?
Look, each to their own, but perhaps you should worry less about what's gone on in their past, and more about the present and future? Anyway, no biggie... :)
I understand what you are saying...but being an old fart with a fair few 'notches on my belt', it doesn't make sense to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
It sounds (to me) like you have some confidence issues to deal with. You have to remember, that for whatever reason, your partner has chosen you.
What might come you have a little control over. Over what has been you have none...how would you feel if a potential future partner felt like you...concerned over your previous sexual encounters. Would you lie to re-assure them?
You really need to let go of that to move forward I reckon.
david
im waiting for davulf to tell us breasts feel like bags of sand.
Well, maybe bad boob jobs do...
Ha ha, just had to laugh. A thread on masturbation that's now become a sexual and personal advice column!
Ha ha!
I guess corruption is the wrong word to use. I explained what I meant though.
Davo and Dave. I can tell that both of you guys are older than I am, which lends some maturity to the discussion. I appreciate what you're both saying, and am presently trying to deal with it. I just have issues with not being able to protect those I love from any and all danger/issues. Therefore, even if things occurred in the past, I still feel like I should have done something.
Anyway, I'm dealing with that. As far as the remark about confidence... Well, it is more that I don't want to have to think that she would ever cheat on me. Hell, I suppose it is a confidence issue at that. You learn something new every day.
Silver.. I don't know why you would think women's breasts feel like sand. When did you start noticing this? Does anyone else notice that as well, or am I the only odd person out who doesn't think they feel like sand.
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Originally Posted by DaVulf
nice rubber and glue technique, but it is no match for my no turnbacks clause.
lol. You're 23, im 21. We're like children amidst all these mature people. Stop making us look bad.
oh see now it feels like your hitting on me so im gonna throw down a premptive circle circle dot dot now iv got the canadianfree shot.
;)
Yep, it sure is. I can speak with some authority, was exactly the same in "younger" days. Then I started to appreciate that I wasn't that bad a catch after all and moved on from that. In the end, how can you really expect someone to care for you as much as you'd want them to if you don't care for yourself? I haven't worried about a gf cheating on me for years. Her loss as far as I'm concerned.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
(and vice versa if I'm the bad guy, it's not an ego thing.)
Though be a little careful with taking "self loving" too literally... ;)
I actually like the idea. I have some questions regarding sheep, and I'm not sure if this is the proper place to ask'em.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheOriginalFlashDavo
Damn, you guys are kids!! Now it all starts to make sense! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
(Here and other threads...)
:) like children?? ...In my 54 year old eyes you ARE children...grown up children maybe, but still children, with the best parts of life to look forward to, rather than back on.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaVulf
david
You'll have to head over to www.flashkit.co.nz for those type of answers.Quote:
Originally Posted by argonauta