How do I impress a girl?

Brag about how many girls that you have been with and then give her the impression that she doesn’t have a chance...

Or...

Walk up to her and say, "Nice shoes. Want to F***?" That was worked ever time for me. Heheh.... but I guess it’s more of because I'm a football and baseball player... but hey just give her time and space and just be your self.

But if that doesn’t work slap her in the face with your little man.

A football, a baseball player? and you can write coherent sentences?

what happened to just asking her out for a drink after college?

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Originally Posted by swampy

A football, a baseball player? and you can write coherent sentences?

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yeah why?

I'm very edge-u-ma-cated...

Heh, there is some truth in that, actually. I don't recommend the face slapping until you get to know her a little better, but women are attracted to strength and most of them want to be dominated to an extent on some level. The key words there are 'to an extent' and 'on some level'. You don't want to wack them on the head with a club or disregard her opinions, but taking the initiative in deciding where you are going to dinner or grabbing a hefty chunk of hair while you are giving her the business will give you mucho manly points and make her go all a-quiver.

Just an observation after nearly forty years on this earth. I didn't make the rules, just happened to make a note or two along the way.

Sadly things don't go that way around here RUSHVision... or at least none of the ladies that I known are like that.

rush i think you might have met some unusual women. or your generalising very broadly.

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rush i think you might have met some unusual women. or your generalising very broadly.

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Aggred... Ive never really had trouble getting dates.... now making them stay with me for over a month is anouther story (right now id rather focus on school then worry about a girl). But yea girls love a man that is firm with her. Shows her that you can actully be a man.

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what happened to just asking her out for a drink after college?

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:conifers:

kids today just think too much into things

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Aggred... Ive never really had trouble getting dates.... now making them stay with me for over a month is anouther story (right now id rather focus on school then worry about a girl). But yea girls love a man that is firm with her. Shows her that you can actully be a man.

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Very true, I only hit her because i love her.

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Aggred...

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no i think you missed my point. never mind.

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Very true, I only hit her because i love her.

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I've never hit a girl... and thats not what i ment... Ment girls like a guy that isnt a wussy boy that wont take a stand on somthing.


Edit... Yes i did miss your point now that i look at it... sorry.

Some girls are into that sort of thing, best to agree a code word beforehand, just to be on the safe side

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Originally Posted by carly1979

rush i think you might have met some unusual women. or your generalising very broadly.

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Of course I am generalizing, and I knew there would be some who would get stuck on the 'dominating' part of my statement and not the actual meaning. Are you saying that you don't like it when a guy takes a little initiative and acts like a man? :)

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Sadly things don't go that way around here RUSHVision... or at least none of the ladies that I known are like that.

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It's a subtle and complex thing. You can't expect a single act to serve the purpose of projecting your manliness. It's a state of mind, a mental attitude, a physical demeanor and a perception that must be constantly reinforced. The complex and subtle part comes into play when deciding exactly how and when to 'be a man'. :)

Ah ok, that make sense. So asking her out now might prove a wrong steps then? (in regards to the original poster), since it is a subtle and complex thing, you have to actually wait till what you want to be projected has been projected, and then you ask.

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It's a subtle and complex thing. You can't expect a single act to serve the purpose of projecting your manliness. It's a state of mind, a mental attitude, a physical demeanor and a perception that must be constantly reinforced. The complex and subtle part comes into play when deciding exactly how and when to 'be a man'. :)

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I think though that you have to agree that it really depends on what kind of girl you’re after. Me I go after the good country girls that make me work to get them. She loves it when I'm "rough" with her. She just happens to like a man that’s big and is confident.

Basically what we are trying to say is that women like a man they can rely on generally. One that will protect them and be there when frankly most guys to day would just look the other way.

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Ah ok, that make sense. So asking her out now might prove a wrong steps then? (in regards to the original poster), since it is a subtle and complex thing, you have to actually wait till what you want to be projected has been projected, and then you ask.

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Correct. :thumbsup:

oppps sorry double post.

I've found that doing an impression of a petrolpump works well.

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Of course I am generalizing, and I knew there would be some who would get stuck on the 'dominating' part of my statement and not the actual meaning. Are you saying that you don't like it when a guy takes a little initiative and acts like a man? :)

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umm well, can't really answer that question.

but acting like a man dosn't always mean being dominant.

is he wanna just F or a long relationship? thats a different strategy all together