Oh hun vent, go for it.
you seem to be forgetting I'm officially anti love and will therefore either laugh or... laugh a lot at whatever is said.
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Oh hun vent, go for it.
you seem to be forgetting I'm officially anti love and will therefore either laugh or... laugh a lot at whatever is said.
I've said it before and I'll say it again, Nats...you're a peach. I like you quite a bit if that means anything. :D
And here's another little secret...all those qualities that I listed above? They can all be trumped by one single thing...inner beauty. Absolutely nothing in this universe shines quite like it and I am attracted to it as a moth is to a flame. If a person is beautiful on the inside then pretty much nothing else matters. And between you, me and who knows how many other people are reading this...you've got it goin' on, babe. Don't let anyone tell you different, even yourself! :cool:
Um,... thanks.
*shocked*
yeah, i dunno about you rush, all cutting people open to look at their insides. kinda creepy in a hostel way.
the only thing girls have to do to impress a guy is look good.
if she is pretty and can breath through her nose shes golden.
Yes, it's true...some of us have simpler needs. We are all looking for different things out of life and love. To each his own and more power to 'em! :)
As for cutting people up and looking at their insides, that's the only place worth looking if you ask me. If you look only at the face people show the world you will miss most of the scenery. :D
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Originally Posted by silverx2
holy crap! 7 pages in 14 hours!? I'll give ya 3 guesses on what the CL's inner motivations are, and the first two don't count.
I'll have to sum up quickly:
To the thread starter: Don't over think it or put too much importance on it. Girls are people too and there are plenty of them. Just ask her if she'd like to get some coffee after class sometime. If the answer is anything but, "yeah, I'd like that." forget it. But get it over with before you've put her on some pedastal. As far as the whole macho vs. softy thing, don't listen, just have respect for yourself.
What I like in ladies: Intelligence, because that usually means you also have some confidence, a sense of humor, and arent judgemental.
Under-FKing-standing, I like when you evaluate the person, not the act. We all do stupid **** sometimes but ones overall attitude and disposition should be whats evaluated, not a single goof-up.
WILL SOMEBODY THINK OF THE CHILDREN!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by jasonsplace
Well said Jaquan.
;)
Had your fill of the whipping post, jAQUAN? :) I agree that all factors should be considered. Sounds like you made a mistake and the little lady went ballistic on you.
And yeah, having respect for yourself is sound advice and then some. :thumbsup:
heh, who hasn't? I've just had some potentially good relationships end because of childish hangups.Quote:
Originally Posted by RUSHVision
Yeah, been there. Perfect mates are hard to find. Harder to keep. I was at least able to remain friends with the last one. That in itself was worth the price of admission.
with sweet dancing skills.
http://img114.exs.cx/img114/8642/napoleon.gif
http://img208.imageshack.us/img208/7...54959ca4pl.gif
Yeah, you know they're lonely... :)
I don't know, the worst turnoff is when the girl is stupid. I think intelligence is something I do like in a girl. The other thing, is when she could do whatever you propose :) in a good way: like, if you say, lets go to the jungle for two weeks, with only a knife and a box of matches, and lets see if we survive, and she's like "alright!" and doesn't bring high heels to the adventure, then it's pretty cool.
yeah arg's (can i call you that) dumb girls all coocoo and giggily, i can't stand em. Smart, good sense of humour someone who looks after themselves, my ideal range is from 7-10 ;)
if i girl wanted to pickme up all she would have to do is initiate some sort of conversation to hint that she's interested, and i also love the girls that dance with you :thumbsup: the problem is though whenever you call these girls the next day their really not what you expected in personality. What i want to know is some good places to pick up rather than the bars, i mean how many of your parents met at bars. (I hope mine aren't the only ones)
no good marriage I know of started at a bar. There are some cuties here in the office but cmon, office romance? I've made that mistake before. I think about taking a cooking class or something but I hate the idea of 'using' the class for ulterior motives.
This is the one & only thing women care about:
http://www.online-cash-advance.com/images/cashman.gif
rush and estudio have the clue. ;)
for everyone 10 girls that tell you the 'treat-em-mean' approach doesn't work you'll see it work on 100. minimum.
if they gave away their tricks, where would the fun be? ;)
;)Quote:
Originally Posted by mr_malee
That's true enough for some, that's for sure. Everyone is going to seek some level of financial security. Money doesn't equal happiness though, and having money will often cause as many problems as not having it. Far better to just make sure the security factor is taken care of then you can concentrate on the more important aspects of garnering a woman's love and trust.
As for a good place to meet women, bars ain't it. Those tend to be just a meat market for punks and losers. Do you really want to take home everybody's favorite club toy to meet the parents?
A much better option is for you both to participate in an activity that you enjoy. Take a fencing class, do some yoga...lots of women in there, or get involved in something you care about. The people you meet will have similar interests and you have something to focus on other than the uncomfortable silence or the next thing you are going to say. If it's something you're good at, then that's just an opportunity to shine and make a favorable impression. Either way, you're doing something you enjoy and everybody wins.
And that's another thing...you can't expect a life to magically appear once you begin a relationship. You already want to have a life. Then each partner's input into the relationship adds to it's richness and variety rather than one overwhelming the other.
Just impress her with yourself and dont give her all kinds of stuff ... just my 2cents ;)
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Originally Posted by Markp.com
[OFF TOPIC] is this cool?, I wrote it today:
http://eden.rutgers.edu/~xiaoshi/win_test.swf
(I'll post the source if anyone wants it)
[ON TOPIC] I'll talk to her on monday before class. I'm not going to use AIM because it's lame and lacks the intended effect.
i have never picked up a chick via aim.. only gotten naked pictures... which suprisingly does not lead to a longer relationship
ASC., i wouldnt tell her now if i were u, what if its a flop? then whats u gonna do?
JenB., "lets have opinions on 'How do I impress a guy?' now. Be honest!"
i like intelligent and confident girls, but most of the intelligent girls know to stay away from me
Hehehe :D Thats the best you can do? Oh man... what a let down...Quote:
Originally Posted by mr_malee
knock knockQuote:
Originally Posted by Markp.com
who's there
mark
mark who
mark Peed himself and then rubbed it all over a fat hairy chick and then they got married and had hairy chewbacca baby's.
http://img66.imageshack.us/img66/2917/chew5fy.jpg
Ungoniegoogoo!
keh?Quote:
Originally Posted by Natsia
OMG!
You havent seen Eddy Murphey's Delerious?
Go forth and Rent the DVD!
Ahhhh toilet humour... Come on mr_melee... bring it up a notch... I'm sure you can do better with all that brain power (unless its just empty space in that giant cranium of yours) ;)