Asclepeos take note, if i cant get carly to feel all warm and fuzzy, think of how well it will work on a straight girl
:hug: carly
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Asclepeos take note, if i cant get carly to feel all warm and fuzzy, think of how well it will work on a straight girl
:hug: carly
You're full of S***, completely full of it. Seriously...how do you skew asking a girl out into "hey you're hot, wanna ****?"....way to twist words so you can really look like the big man around here by winning an argument based on s***. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by silverx2
If you want to be fair, you should really change
option a.) hey baby, wanna head over to my dorm and ill show you the best 2 and a half minutes of your life
to:
a.) (while in conversation)...."hey, i hear that this movie that's coming out this weekend is supposed to be pretty good...do you want to go see it with me?"
----there's no way that can be construed into "hey wanna ****?" and it's not like he's asking her while in a bar.
Pull you're head out of your skinny white a$$ silver.
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Originally Posted by lefteyewilly
its not worth argueing with you, everyone here knows your girlfriend is posting for you while she makes you clean. ya little puppet.
For some women it would be just the thing. And call me a romantic, but the rose actually isn't a bad idea. If you do it in the public venue though, it lends itself to possible public humiliation if she rebuffs you. If such a gesture is made I would make sure you do it in private or leave it for her to find. Finding a rose and a note just might send her into flights of unrestrained fancy. I'm sure she will at least be flattered that someone would take the time and effort to make the thoughtful overture. Women are quirky creatures. :)
Might want to think twice about that red tip, though...not sure you want to indicate the possibility of love at this early stage. But hey, you never know. :)
p.s.
i fixed my girl problems. ya see im a solid 6 out of 10, and i was busy trying to date 9's.
see you cant date people 3 above you, i can get a 7.. maby.
Yeah, stay away from the nines...they're nothin' but trouble. :D
If she doesn't like you it will complicate your current working relationship. So the question is, how much do you care about your working relationship? Good advice, stop caring about what happens so much, it will make you seem less confident, which is something girls really like. If you don't care if she says no, it would also help you maintain your working relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by Asclepeos
Just go for it without a care of the outcome.
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Originally Posted by Shotsy247
(Straight girl Imput) Yes confidence is important. Its hard to advise the best way of dealing with different kinds of girls, but confidence, a man who is passionate, funny, friendly, open-minded, and doesn't appear desparate will be onto a winner! For the record, I am attracted to masculine men, give me a few scars anyday ;), and i find dominent men are the most appealing! (But controlling/jealous/arrogent men definatly a big turn off)
I wouldnt tell her your feelings until you know more about if she likes you, it should happen naturally if you both like eachother anyway. But keep it going as long as possible because its no fun when the chase is over ;)
Welcome to flashkit Jen...how'd you find us?Quote:
Originally Posted by JenB
----ok, seeing you're new here and female (there aren't alot here)...which would you rather prefer to be asked out?
a.) (while in conversation)...."hey, i hear that this movie that's coming out this weekend is supposed to be pretty good...do you want to go see it with me?"
b.) here this is for you, a red tipped yellow rose and a note, wanna go see a movie?
JenB, my number is 555, 555 GIANT ANDRE.
HAHAHA :D Genius! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by mr_malee
I see this train wreck is still continuing :D Maybe the girls of FK could have their input... what would work for you ladies? ;)
ok im not really sure, but ill give this one to you lefty.Quote:
Originally Posted by JenB
so the score is my idea: 3, lefteye's: 1
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Straight girl in the Coffee Lounge.
yeah shes straight... but shes british.:thumbsdown:
umm ghostgirl and natsia might be offended by that?!!! haha
edit: hi jen btw :D
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Originally Posted by lefteyewilly
Hello :) I came on here for Flash help but got sidetracked by this post!
a.) Without a doubt.
Go out as friends a few times first, have some drinks, then swap numbers and don't call her for a while (we fall for it everytime) ;)
jen once you go lounge, you never go umm back i guess, im not good with the rhymes
you'll find this happens alot.Quote:
Originally Posted by JenB
As far as the 'casual request' vs. 'flower & a note' debate, it doesn't have to be one idea or the other. A single approach isn't going to work with/for everyone. So it's not really a fair comparison since every single person in the world is going to be at least somewhat unique in their response to any given situation.
It's also pretty much impossible to get an accurate assessment of how someone will react when you are presenting the choices 'on paper'. Whether you just casually ask a woman out or if you decide to go the more romantic route and do it with a note and flower, it's all going to be in the delivery. Some people could carry it off, and some couldn't. And yeah, if you just walked up to someone, dumped a flower and note in their lap then asked them if they wanted to go out, you would likely face a quick refusal. It could be done with enough charm and flair though, that you would be creating a memory of a first encounter that could be shared with your children.
Why thankyou! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by JenB