well...guys and gals...
its been too long, I am now 17 and never been on a date.
got any suggestions?
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
G
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well...guys and gals...
its been too long, I am now 17 and never been on a date.
got any suggestions?
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
G
all depends what kinda girl u want, if u want a nice down to eart chick (not many of them around) just smile.
if u want a normal chick - that would be catty, controlling, possessive, greedy, then just make sure u drive a fast car and pay for everything, oh and did i mention treat her like crap, for some reason girls like that. hope my advice helps :)
rich
I am sensing a little cynicism here!Quote:
Originally posted by richp
all depends what kinda girl u want, if u want a nice down to eart chick (not many of them around) just smile.
if u want a normal chick - that would be catty, controlling, possessive, greedy, then just make sure u drive a fast car and pay for everything, oh and did i mention treat her like crap, for some reason girls like that. hope my advice helps :)
rich
touchy subject?
;)
don't get one... so you don't have to worry about loosing her day and night :mad:
good luck ;) lots of love experts on here... they sure will help you!
haha Azaraelle, nah its just decent girls are so hard to find, why do girls have to be so #$%#@!$@@@!
Not another one of these posts. But atleast it doesn't make me feel so bad about being lonely.
hmmm, as soon as you stop looking, stop worrying about it and stop feeling like you're not normal because of it is usually when you find someone :)
easier said than done though.
my problem is i cant seem to like any chick longer then the time im drunk, i think im saving myself for the right girl, oh that sounds so gay!
There was a thread about this the other day, and one of the things that came up from several of the women who posted was that one things they hate is desperation. If you come across as just dying to get a date -- with anyone, just so you feel better about yourself -- it's a big turn-off.
Far be it from me to offer dating advice (my wife would laugh herself sick if she saw this... :D) it seems that you're more likely to be successful if you: act naturally (ie. don't try to be something you're not -- you'll just look phoney); show self-confidence (but beware of seeming arrogant); treat women as people, not just 'dating opportunities'.
Remember also that there is no 'secret'. You can follow all the advice in the world and still not find someone, or ignore it all and find your soulmate tomorrow. The most important thing to remember is that just because you haven't had a date yet doesn't make you a bad person or a failure, or that it'll never happen. At 17 you have plenty of time left before you need to start worrying...
Great advice mate!Quote:
Originally posted by Stickman
Far be it from me to offer dating advice (my wife would laugh herself sick if she saw this... :D) it seems that you're more likely to be successful if you: act naturally (ie. don't try to be something you're not -- you'll just look phoney); show self-confidence (but beware of seeming arrogant); treat women as people, not just 'dating opportunities'.
Remember also that there is no 'secret'. You can follow all the advice in the world and still not find someone, or ignore it all and find your soulmate tomorrow. The most important thing to remember is that just because you haven't had a date yet doesn't make you a bad person or a failure, or that it'll never happen. At 17 you have plenty of time left before you need to start worrying...
My female friend (Man, that phrase sounds weird) said something like that. Or get some of your female friends to hook you up. She's wants to hook me up but I haven't got the time and I'm getting over a previous relationship.
Stickman hit it on the head there. Basically if you don't bother looking for someone, just be yourself and confident in who you are, have fun with whatever you do and don't try and be something else she fall (maybe not literally) into you lap. Hang out with your mates, chat and goof around with any 'female friends' :D you have (this is good cus then you look like a self confident guy who can have fun and doesn't look desperate!). Hey, it'S worked for me! Never went looking for anyone in me life, just kept fallin' into things, and it surprised me everytime. And that's fun when that happens!:D
About being abit of an @$$hole to women, yeah I've noticed there are a lot of women who'll jump all over you when you treat 'em like crap, but in the end they're not gonna be someone you're going to want to be around for a long time so...
youre not alone :)Quote:
Originally posted by Dowenger
well...guys and gals...
its been too long, I am now 17 and never been on a date.
That's another important one -- if you spend your whole time moping about not having a relationship, you're wasting your life. Have a good time, if you find someone then great but you don't have to be in a couple to enjoy yourself.Quote:
have fun with whatever you do
I'm w/ya all the way man :DQuote:
Originally posted by snoop_doug
youre not alone :)Quote:
Originally posted by Dowenger
well...guys and gals...
its been too long, I am now 17 and never been on a date.
Buy a bucket full of wallpaper paste, cover your full body apart from your groin, get a pillow full of feathers, rip it open and attach feathers to body.
Simmer for 12 minutes in stand-up tan shop and serve in general public for big humiliation.
Serves 200+
Ingredients:-
1 bucket of wallpaper paste
1 feather filled pillow
1 public street
1 tanning shop
GOOD LUCK :p:p:p
agree but that applies to anyone :)Quote:
Originally posted by Stickman
That's another important one -- if you spend your whole time moping about not having a relationship, you're wasting your life. Have a good time, if you find someone then great but you don't have to be in a couple to enjoy yourself.Quote:
have fun with whatever you do
Nobody wants to be with somebody whos bitter, grumpy and whines all the time or looks down on anyone whos better off or less better off ! Live your life and learn to like yourself for who you are and what you have, then you'll be a much happier and content person
a
Here's another tip -
Try not to use Internet acronyms in casual conversations or pick-up lines.
"Hey! U want 2 meet F2f IRL?"
or "a/s/l?"
Will be definate turn-offs.
:p
rofl! ... This one really puts bees in your underwear, doesn't it?Quote:
Originally posted by CNO
"a/s/l?"
:D
Another great Lanny-ism! :)Quote:
Originally posted by LanSite
This one really puts bees in your underwear
Yes, indeed, this is one of those things that irks me a great deal.
Even despite the fact that I've had conversations so full of acronyms that we didn't realize we were using the same acronym for two different technologies until halfway through the conversation.
From now on, I'm going to ask for Name, Rank, Date-of-Birth, in response to the question. :D
bees in the underwear? pritty sensational feeling i think :D
ok heres my way to do it...
apporch a girl who you think is cool...
slap her butt...
pull her poney tail, if no poney tail pull her earing or just ear...
poke in her eye...
and say 'will you go out with me'
that should work! i think!
p.s. make sure that she dosen't sue you for sexual harrashemt ;)