I've been dumped

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03-30-2007, 12:18 AM
argonauta

I've been dumped

I think this is the third time in a row I've been dumped for exactly the same reason. :)

I get introduced to a girl (by some friend) that is just out of a relationship. We hang out for a while, we have good chemistry, and when things are starting to go well, she talks to her ex boyfriend, her world breaks apart, she knows she doesn't want to go back with him, but she still loves the guy, and she feels as cheating. So I end out of her life.

So, is this something that only happens to me, or is pretty usual? Or that 'i still love my ex' is just a lame excuse to get rid of me? :yikes:
03-30-2007, 01:51 AM
koolbabs2000

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'i still love my ex' is just a lame excuse to get rid of me?

- Im sorry to say this - but yes it is... Dont be surprised to see this same girl going around with somebody else soon. Anyways my heartfelt sympathies to you... especially since it has happened quite often than not.
03-30-2007, 02:18 AM
david petley

well, it might be true....but it is still a pretty lame excuse ;)

...but then you young folk get way too serious about love and relationships.

Maybe you're attracted to women in a fragile emotional state. If this is the 3rd time in a row, you have to wonder if you are setting yourself up for this stuff by becoming involved with someone who has just ended a relationship.

david
03-30-2007, 02:19 AM
Chris_Seahorn

Everything happens for a reason man. She just wasn't the one. Better to know sooner than later.

Take a breather....clear your head and get back in the game :)
03-30-2007, 02:30 AM
gerbick

Another "pretty lame excuse" vote here too.

Up there with "You're too nice of a guy..." and "I have to wash my hair"...

Just relax, refocus... do my site... and have fun.
03-30-2007, 02:44 AM
jAQUAN

back on that horse.
03-30-2007, 09:06 AM
silverx2

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Originally Posted by gerbick

Another "pretty lame excuse" vote here too.

Up there with "You're too nice of a guy..." and "I have to wash my hair"...

Just relax, refocus... do my site... and have fun.

That one still stings.

if a girl girls you a lame excuse like that, you find her best friend and a you seduce her, then her best friend can tell her how perfect you are at everything, and she can cry her self to sleep knowing she missed out.
03-30-2007, 09:12 AM
PAlexC

Quote:

Originally Posted by argonauta

So, is this something that only happens to me, or is pretty usual?

Once or twice, it just happens to everyone.

3 times in a row, it only happens to you. You're not looking for damsels in distress are you? Sure way to get burned.

Sorry man, that sucks.
03-30-2007, 09:31 AM
hurricaneone

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Originally Posted by Chris_Seahorn

Take a breather....clear your head and get back in the game :)

That's possibly the most sensible thing I've seen you say.

Not that you had to have any genuine revelations to beat your other comments, but still, good advice.

Too bad, argo - catch some tequila shots and enjoy the porn *cough*, I mean...

No, I guess I did mean porn.
03-30-2007, 09:39 AM
Chris_Seahorn

That's possibly the most sensible thing I've seen you say.

Not that you had to have any genuine revelations to beat your other comments, but still, good advice.

Since we're comfy tossing observations....I haven't seen much in the way of prophetic from your end mate. Sounds like you got quite a stew brewing in your pot but thankfully I already ate ;)
03-30-2007, 09:43 AM
hurricaneone

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Originally Posted by Chris_Seahorn

I haven't seen much in the way of prophetic from your end mate.

I'm working up to a big one.

Stay tuned.
03-30-2007, 09:50 AM
Chris_Seahorn

I'll be around. Start feeling froggy bro you just ring me up and jump.
03-30-2007, 09:54 AM
silverx2

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Originally Posted by Chris_Seahorn

I'll be around. Start feeling froggy bro you just ring me up and jump.

wtf?
03-30-2007, 10:01 AM
Chris_Seahorn

Quote:

Originally Posted by hurricaneone

That's possibly the most sensible thing I've seen you say.

Not that you had to have any genuine revelations to beat your other comments, but still, good advice.

Too bad, argo - catch some tequila shots and enjoy the porn *cough*, I mean...

No, I guess I did mean porn.

What happened to the "wtf" when a user gets wised a##ed with a mod Silver? You'll forgive me if I ignore your biased "surprise".

Call someone out or single someone out with a wise remark..they might respond. I actually got an email that my name came up....I also muttered a "wtf" but seeing as I was on the end of the barb....I think my reasons out trump yours.
03-30-2007, 10:07 AM
argonauta

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris_Seahorn

Everything happens for a reason man. She just wasn't the one. Better to know sooner than later.

I know she wasn't the one :) Maybe it's just that, that I don't put any effort into the relationship. I'm too busy with my own life these days.

At least I get to taste the goods before they send me away :D but yeah, from now on, won't go out with women with that type of emotional baggage.
03-30-2007, 10:09 AM
argonauta

Quote:

Originally Posted by gerbick

"I have to wash my hair"

is that when you answer back: "I'm sorry, I was aiming to your mouth?"
03-30-2007, 10:13 AM
Chris_Seahorn

Good attitide. It'll all work out man.

Thanks also for not feeling the need to get nasty to what I thought was an honestly offered opinion on my part. :thumbsup:
03-30-2007, 10:13 AM
mr_malee

Quote:

Originally Posted by argonauta

I think this is the third time in a row I've been dumped for exactly the same reason. :)

I get introduced to a girl (by some friend) that is just out of a relationship. We hang out for a while, we have good chemistry, and when things are starting to go well, she talks to her ex boyfriend, her world breaks apart, she knows she doesn't want to go back with him, but she still loves the guy, and she feels as cheating. So I end out of her life.

So, is this something that only happens to me, or is pretty usual? Or that 'i still love my ex' is just a lame excuse to get rid of me? :yikes:

hey, at least you get dumped. My relationships have all ended with planes. Nothing worse than when a good relationship doesn't actually end, merely dilutes over MSN.

Microsoft have ruined my sex life 3 times now.
03-30-2007, 10:13 AM
Natsia

makes 2 of us
03-30-2007, 10:16 AM
mr_malee

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Originally Posted by Natsia

makes 2 of us

gerbick, thats no way to treat a lady.
03-30-2007, 10:46 AM
silverx2

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris_Seahorn

What happened to the "wtf" when a user gets wised a##ed with a mod Silver? You'll forgive me if I ignore your biased "surprise".

Call someone out or single someone out with a wise remark..they might respond. I actually got an email that my name came up....I also muttered a "wtf" but seeing as I was on the end of the barb....I think my reasons out trump yours.

i said wtf because i have no idea what your talking about.

im still trying to find that link hurricane posted once with uk slang. feeling froggy?
03-31-2007, 12:33 AM
jAQUAN

get a room.
03-31-2007, 12:44 AM
gerbick

and film it.
03-31-2007, 05:18 AM
david petley

....and then watch it to see if it makes more sense to you than it does me.

dp
03-31-2007, 10:09 AM
argonauta

and when you break up, remember i'm available :)
03-31-2007, 10:24 AM
mr_malee

so wheres next on the hit list?

i need ideas too
04-02-2007, 04:08 AM
el-Ignoramus

One Word

Deodorant
04-03-2007, 01:14 AM
Damaso

Girls who just got out from a serious relationship tend to use guys as a "crying shoulders". Don't get sucked in with this situation but introduce yourself as a "laughing companion".
04-03-2007, 02:38 AM
adit_ya_sharma

<-- been a crying shoulder, yes please. From now on I will only communicate in $$$
Girl: Honey how do you like my dress?
Me: $$$$$$$ $$$ $$ $$$$$$$
Girl: Aaaw....come here tiger.