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[gecko2]

Some useful links for you here killabry

http://www.sexual-therapy.net/
http://www.sexdoc.com/
http://www.sexed.org/
http://www.sexology.org/

This last one looks like it could be the most useful

www.barbie.com
EDITED BY RAZORMEDIA - IT WAS PORN
naughty boy gecko - no more or I'll ban your sorry ass

But seriously I wouldn't get too stressed, she might not be pregnant.
[Edited by RazoRmedia on 08-17-2001 at 11:21 AM]

[CyberSaint77]

Originally posted by gecko2
]But seriously I wouldn't get too stressed, she might not be pregnant.

But if she is, bro, you need to be a man and take care of business-be there for her and the kid. There's too many kids out there who don't have fathers because the fathers were too damn coward to take responsability. It's not the kid's fault, y'know?

[gecko2]

Sorry. When I saw the words "Teenage" and "Beastality" I couldn't resist

Won't do it again

[Mac8myPC]

ooh my my my...

ya know peeps i think it's kinda sad lookin over most of the advice here... i mean i'm no great advice guru myself but come on... one of our yungun's posted somethin because he's kinda freakin out which is understandable. but save the lectures for another day.. right now the boy doesn't need to be told how unresponsible he is or how dumb he is for having sex at such a young age, he needs some good advice on what to do now....

my best advice is just to say chill man... freakin out about it will not help you or her any. your just going to have to wait until you know for sure. give it a week or two and go get a test then the two of you can take it together and see for sure. In the mean time it is a good idea to go to a school counselor or something... there are pregnancy centers and people who counsel on these types of things everyday.. they won't tell your parents or hers and you can get things out in the open with someone and it'll take some of the weight off. hang in there man... i know bein 15 old ain't the easiest time of your life, especially if she does turn out to be pregnant... but hang in there, suck it up and be strong. you can take whatever comes and you'll make it through.

[tijsch]

Originally posted by Mac8myPC
ooh my my my...

ya know peeps i think it's kinda sad lookin over most of the advice here... i mean i'm no great advice guru myself but come on... one of our yungun's posted somethin because he's kinda freakin out which is understandable. but save the lectures for another day.. right now the boy doesn't need to be told how unresponsible he is or how dumb he is for having sex at such a young age, he needs some good advice on what to do now....

my best advice is just to say chill man... freakin out about it will not help you or her any. your just going to have to wait until you know for sure. give it a week or two and go get a test then the two of you can take it together and see for sure. In the mean time it is a good idea to go to a school counselor or something... there are pregnancy centers and people who counsel on these types of things everyday.. they won't tell your parents or hers and you can get things out in the open with someone and it'll take some of the weight off. hang in there man... i know bein 15 old ain't the easiest time of your life, especially if she does turn out to be pregnant... but hang in there, suck it up and be strong. you can take whatever comes and you'll make it through.

your advice is better then your taste for computers

[djswerve]

Originally posted by RazoRmedia
it aint a doctor you need to see, its a psychiatrist if your keeping condoms for a week after use...

rotflmao



tell me,

have you kept any for longer?

[Aria]

Originally posted by tijsch


Make her take the morning-after-pill...

excuuuuse me ? !?

if you want to make somebody do stuff for you get an inflatable doll

To get back to Killabrys post here:

I think you got on average some good advice here and ill just add my bit :

Youre both very young but want to have sex?- fine, make sure you learn a few things that unfortunately you wont get just by reading Maxim

you admitted that you dont know for example much about womens cycles etc well now here's your chance .
id advise you both to go and visit your local health practice and see a doctor or nurse. Also if your gf is going to be sexually active she might want to consider going on the pill - a nurse will be able to advise her on her options re: contraception

Also i find it interesting that straight after this happenede you came here and posted about it

The lounge here has seen many 'emergencies' lol but this beats everythign

good luck

A

[killabry]

razor, i asked here because i feel like i know the people here a bit more then at random sites.

I'm going to take her to planned parenthood as soon as i can and get her tested. I don't want to be a father.

I dont know where anyone ever got that the condom was a week old, because it wasn't. If the threads innapropriate, then i will delete it.

I will keep everyone up to date on if she is pregnant or not.

[dazedandconfused]

Let's make like Jimmy the Greek and make some bets!

[djswerve]

£20 says she's up the duff

[crazybonkers]

I’m with you man…£20 it’s a boy.


No seriously Aria has given you the proper answer, get advise from professional people, that’s what they are there for. You can not change the past and worrying is not going to change the out come.

You will probably find that most man…and woman have been in this situation. Don’t sit and think about the out come…GO SORT IT OUT…






crazybonkers

[TianaKaeSha]

I have heard lots of people here saying take precautions, you are not old enought, be man about it... blah blah blah...

Here is my two cents.

At the age of 16 my boyfriend raped me... I had concented to sex beforehand - but not this time, and not how he did it. He thought he was doing the right thing - used a condom and all that... but rape is still rape. (no--- I did not report it... should have.. but did not.... )

When it was over I noticed the condom had a split down the side - prollie from him being so rough. So now I had the waiting game. I went to my doctor the next day - telling my mum I had some other problem. Asked for the morning afterpill. He gave them to me... and the normal pill.

It is stressful for your girl Bry... she will be s***ing herself....

be there for her... and be prepared for anything... the joy of her not being pregnant... or the support is she is...

if you are going to play in the adult world... you need to understand ALL concequences of the game...

--my two bobs worth....

[Dzine]

Originally posted by killabry
razor, i asked here because i feel like i know the people here a bit more then at random sites.

I'm going to take her to planned parenthood as soon as i can and get her tested. I don't want to be a father.

I dont know where anyone ever got that the condom was a week old, because it wasn't. If the threads innapropriate, then i will delete it.

I will keep everyone up to date on if she is pregnant or not.

nothings wrong with posting it in here kill dont worry.
Its best with a few people you know, and with all the jokes its a bit of a good thing. If you cant laugh a little during some of your darkest times then thats the time to panic.



D

[killabry]

well, status report-

She might be pregnant, we are waiting about 2 weeks for her to get her next period, if she does, we're safe.

If not, we are on our way to planned parenthood and i will try to persuade her it would be better for us if she got an abortion.

[snoop_doug]

Originally posted by killabry
i will try to persuade her it would be better for us if she got an abortion.

im sure this is what shes thinking too

i cant imagine you as a dad @ 15 killabry

[killabry]

I would make the best dad.

My kid would be programming at 7. I'd hook him up with flash and get him tweening at 8. I'm sure by the time he's 15 he'd be a computer genius, and he can correct my code.

right now my family is having money problems and so is hers. I don't wanna be a daddy, but if I can't persuade her to get an abortion i will have to support my kid.

My parents split up when i was 7 and my dad was never there for me, and still, i only see him once a month, maybe. If I were to have a kid, i'd make sure i'm there whenever they need me, and I wouldn't be on FK that much.

Last year i used to joke about this when watching jerry springer and jenny jones. I just hope she isn't pregnant. Her family also has a history of mental illnesses with newborns, and i would find it really hard to take care of a normal kid, but if we were to have a kid with special needs I'd find it impossible. Responsibility is scary, but i gotta do the right thing, and take care of my kid.

i hope she isn't pregnant.

[UpNorth]

Check your mail Bry

[killabry]

Didn't get anything, my aol mail has been acting up lately.

Try sending it to Killabry@altavista.com , sorry for the inconvenience.

[mbenney]

good luck and dont ***** it just yet, its really likely that the hole occured when you took it off. to lighten up the atmosphere ill tell the tale of my first sexual experience....

it was a warm summers night, a few friends and i (including my girlfriend of the time) were camping on the beach. my gf and i had talked about sex and both thought we were ready. i didnt carry condoms but my best mate did so i went to him. he gave me a couple and said.... "make sure you put it on all the way so it doesnt come off, and you dont get crabs"

so there we were, huggin and kissin, i went to put on the condom.... remembering my friends advice i pulled it down as far as i could.... not a good idea, it pulled half of my pubes out!! very painful! we did get round to it in the end though.... when it stopped hurtin!


i hope shes not pregnant and that this brought a smile to your face




gl ./m

[killabry]

hahahahhah!

sure did make me smile what a great story!