Can someone point me in the right direction for this please.

I've already got a chatroom and it works great. In this chatroom there is a private option where only two people can talk. Its here I would like to add a webcam feature where these two people only can see/talk to each other.

I've been told Flash is the best way to go about this and have dabbled in flash a little. I know I need Flash Media Server and have a few places where I can get hosting for this. I don't want to have another chat room just for private chat. I just need some kind of flash file that I can add to my page that only allows a one to one view.

Can this be done fairly easily and if so how?

Thanks for any help on this matter.