have embed the youtube flash player via this code.
Code:
// create a MovieClip to load the player into
var ytplayer:MovieClip = _root.createEmptyMovieClip("ytplayer", 1);

// create a listener object for the MovieClipLoader to use
var ytPlayerLoaderListener:Object = {
  onLoadInit: function() {
    // When the player clip first loads, we start an interval to
    // check for when the player is ready
    this.loadInterval = setInterval(this.checkPlayerLoaded, 250);
  }
};

var loadInterval:Number;


function checkPlayerLoaded():Void {
    // once the player is ready, we can subscribe to events, or in the case of
    // the chromeless player, we could load videos
    if (ytplayer.isPlayerLoaded()) {
        ytplayer.addEventListener("onStateChange", onPlayerStateChange);
        ytplayer.addEventListener("onError", onPlayerError);
        clearInterval(loadInterval);
    }
}

function onPlayerStateChange(newState:Number) {
    trace("New player state: "+ newState);
}

function onPlayerError(errorCode:Number) {
    trace("An error occurred: "+ errorCode);
}

// create a MovieClipLoader to handle the loading of the player
var ytPlayerLoader:MovieClipLoader = new MovieClipLoader();
ytPlayerLoader.addListener(ytPlayerLoaderListener);

// load the player
ytPlayerLoader.loadClip("http://www.youtube.com/v/VIDEO_ID", ytplayer);
from http://code.google.com/apis/youtube/...reference.html

I would Like to know, How can I run the destory command because the video keeps playing even though the command has been passed. I've used stopVideo and destory. they dont work until you press the pause button. I would like to end the video even if its playing.