Assuming the button exists in the outer swf, you would use something like this:
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function escapeChildSwf(e:Event = null):void{
removeChild(loader);
loader.unload();
gotoAndPlay('someFrame');
}
If the button is inside the child swf, you'll need to dispatch a custom event out of their like so:
PHP Code:
childBtn.addEventListener(MouseEvent.CLICK, function(e:MouseEvent):void{
dispatchEvent(new Event('killMe'));
});
And listen to that event from the parent swf:
PHP Code:
loader.content.addEventListener('killMe', escapeChildSwf);