you could put a variable in the URL string and when your flash movie loads it will read it and go to the correct label.
example:
the button in the header got to:
Code:
on(press) {
getURL("http://www.yourflashsite.com");
}
you want it to be something like:
Code:
on(press) {
getURL("http://www.yourflashsite.com?frameName=whatever");
}
in your flash movie/page you'll have to make some changes in the embed code alittle (to be able to read the string var)....and then inside the flash movie you'd have to make something like an 'IF' statement that says if (frameName==whatever) { //do this;}
there is link in my footer called urlVar > flash 1 2 thats what you'll want to do if this solution seems correct for you.