MX rollover menu. Help!

[maydays]

I new in flash and i made an roll over menu , but i dont know how to make the rollout command for the menu to go in the first place.

http://www.swouxhall.com/work/mayday/rollover_menu.html

I made a background button("bt bck") under the buttons,with the rollout action on it, but when i go over the buttons the rollout comand is executed so i cant use that.
Also the menu is the same size like the stage and i cant rollout at the top and buton of the stage.

After many hours of thinking i have make a frame button("bt_rollout") with the rollout action on it and its working,the probles is that if i move the mouse to quick the rollout script will
not be executed and the menu will remain open.

Can u please tell me what are my other options to make my menu working, can it be done with action script?
I attached the fla to uderstand what my poor english is trying to say...
Any ideea will help...
THANK You Very Much...