Need opinion on how to help people understand :)

[hooligan2001]

Hey guys/gals, one weekend a couple of weeks ago i got bored and decided to make a little flash game. Which i havent done for quite sometime. Now its a Norts and Cross's clone of some sort except i decided to add a couple of things in, like pickups and traps under tiles. Now the game works but the problem i am having is people dont seem to understand how it work's its not that complex of a game but i understand why people think its hard to understand. Now i have instructions that describe how to play and i think they are pretty straight forward. But when it comes to playing thats when confusion steps in. Now my question is how would you change the gameplay so that taking turns and pickups make sense?

Here is the title of the game

And here is the link

BOMB - tic tac toe

Any other comments welcome. Thanks

PS: Dont worry about the high submit score thingy yet its not linked to the high score table yet