attached sound pre-loading

[MarkSensei]

could anyone give me some pointers on how to pre-load attached sounds that are exported to frame 1? the flash loads all the attached sound data before entering the frame where my pre-loader lives.
what can I do?

thanks to anyone who can help.

Mark

[MarkSensei]

I have tried to make a preloader swf which when open it imports the swf I want preloaded, now this DOES do what I want it to do, that is preload my attached sounds, but now the attached sounds dont associate with their specified target.
my main swf holds all the attached sounds for the swf which are loaded onto the main swf's stage ( i had problems with the main swf that when it imported a swf that held attached sounds, the sounds wouldnt play, so this corrected that problem) but now, its the same thing.it seems the attached sounds have to reside in the swf which is on the highest level. can anyone undersatand what im trying to say?
so this is my problem

thanks

[MarkSensei]

*just a friendly bump