Ok ok ok, i kinda "think" i understand what i have to do.

If on my child swf, my game, i have these variables
Actionscript Code:
pressed=false;
rooms=4;
item1PICKED=false;

Then in my PARENT swf, the loader, in the onLoadInit i refer ALL MY CHILD SWF VARIABLES to it:
onLoadInit=function(){
thispressed=ContainerMovieClip.pressed;
thisrooms=ContainerMovieClip.rooms;

thisitem1PICKED=ContainerMovieClip.item1PICKED;

}

Right? :'( i wanna cry