hello
I am going with CF. This is my point of view It is best for me i think Coldfusion is better for a lot of reasons. Some i mention
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1.Very easy to learn compared to other.
2.The ColdFusion administrator is very easy to use and has a nice User Interface.
3.Writing ColdFusion applications require much less code compared to other.
4.Coding applications is much less time consuming as ColdFusion is much more Robust than other.
5.ColdFusion has something called Custom Tags, which makes the managing and accessing of website templates a breeze.
6.Very easy to use coldfusion OOP functions. Also allows for .NET and Java integration.
7.Integrates very well with Flex.
8.Although the Adobe ColdFusion server is not open source, there is an excellent ColdFusion alternative.
9.Extremly Robust with a vast amount of built in javascript packages like cfgrid, cfwindow and cftooltip. Also coldfusion has built in functions to allow ajax binding extremly simple.
10.Extremely easy to read compared to other.