Can't anyone at least give me some props on getting as far as I have? I mean I managed to get all the things done that a person expects from a good multi-player game except fix up this speed problem and good graphics.

Even if all client-side data handling is flawed, can't you admit that doing all that in actionscript is pretty good? I got rid of the need for a mysql database using sharedobjects that store all the user data to my computer for crying out loud XD. And I tell you it wasn't easy to code that, more than half the code I put into making all this went to the swf database